Grabe 'no, ang bilis talaga lumaki ng mga anak natin. I know most parents can relate to this – one moment, maliliit ang mga anak natin na prang mga kuting na helpless, then the next moment, malalaki na sila at sobrang kulit at pahirapan na bawalin haha. This is a constant “complaint” among parents -- kids grow up too fast. Sometimes, napapasabi na lang tayo na sana ay not too fast ang paglaki nila (at paglipas ng panahon).
Bakit ko nga ba ito naisip? Wala, this is just a random thought. Nung isang araw kasi, pinagmamasdan ko ang dalawa kong anak Napansin ko si Rafa parang tumaas na naman. Significantly bigger sya as compared to when he started school almost a year ago. Si Kuya Miguel naman, who recently turned seven years old, ang laking bata na. Feeling ko next year, kasing laki na sya ng mga binatilyo.
On the other hand, since inevitable naman talaga ang paglipas ng panahon at paglaki ng mga anak natin, how do we maximize our time with them? Para sa akin, simple lang. Spend as much time as you can with them. Mga simpleng bonding moments each day, weekend dates with your family, and special occasions.
Support them as they grow up, lead them in the right way, create lasting memories with them. Sabi nga sa isang daddy group, as long as you create memorable and good experiences with your children, babalik at babalik sila sa inyo eventually. Pwedeng hindi kagaya dati, since independent na nga sila, pero at least dadalaw at dadalaw pa rin sila kahit may sari-sarili na silang mga buhay.
Again, para sa isang magulang, masakit lang siguro maisip ng eventually lalaki ang mga anak natin, magkakaroon ng sariling buhay, at iiwan tayo. Pero ganun talaga ang natural course of things. What we can do in the meantime is take advantage of the time we have with them while they are still little and create lasting memories that they will carry with them for life.
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True Naman Daddy Iv at time flies so fast kaya habang maliit pa sila ay spend time na kasama sila kasi habang sila ay lumalaki ay hindi iyan makakalimotan at dala dala pa itong mga memories
Agree po ako jan kaya for me lalo na first time mom ako gusto ko sulitin habang bata pa baby ko habang pwede pa makarga kasi minsan lang sila maging bata.