Sharing some positive affirmations to my fellow dads who might be feeling a little tired or overwhelmed lately.
We normally hear stories about tired and stressed out moms but it’s not
often that we hear dads complain about these things. As such, people might
think that dads are just cool and may even be misconstrued as indifferent at
times. However, that’s far from the truth and, most of the time, dads are
plagued with worries and mental health issues.
Positive Affirmations For Tired Dads
Dads do get tired, too, but people will not hear them baring their feelings.
That’s because most dads still prefer to put up a strong façade. Even in this
modern day and age, dads are still expected to remain as strong as a rock, the
pillar of the home.
Just the same, we have our own way of coping. Most dads are able to hurdle the
stress and day to day challenges that come their way and still muster the
energy to take care of their family.
Admittedly though, there are times when things get a little too much. I’m sure
you’ve been through days when challenges just keep on coming with no sign of
mellowing down anytime soon. In moments like this, it’s good to stop for a
while and make positive affirmations.
You’ll realize that things will become a little bearable and may even begin to
get better soon. Here are some of the things that you can do:
Forgive yourself
Some dads can be perfectionists and become too hard on themselves when they
commit mistakes, whether at home or at work. I know because I also am on a lot
of occasions. Sometimes, I would even nitpick and make an issue out of small
things.
When all that we look at are our mistakes, our minds can become too cloudy and
we may eventually begin to tell ourselves that we are such failures. Of
course, that’s not good because it can lead to even bigger disasters, so to
speak.
So, learn to forgive yourself for committing that mistake, for losing your
temper, or for being emotional. After all, you’re just as human as anybody
else and you deserve that second chance (or more).
You’re doing just fine
When I was just a new dad, I had the tendency to compare myself with other
parents. I still do, really. It’s just that I realized later on that there’s
no point in comparing myself with other parents. After all, I don’t even know
what they’re going through. Thus, I just do what I think is right and I’ve
learned to trust my instincts.
As long as something isn’t bad for my kids, then that’s totally fine. I don’t
have to be like other parents and my kids don’t have to be similar to other
children.
You're enough
I sometimes feel that I’m not good enough. When things become too much, I feel
that I’m not able to give enough for my family – be it time, money, or your
own skills. I begin telling myself that I’m not good enough and, at times,
come to a point that I wish I were somebody else or give up altogether.
When that happens, I stop and try to put things into perspective. Take it slow
and focus on one task or issue at a time. Later on, the feeling of being
overwhelmed will go away. You will gradually regain confidence and feel that
your efforts are enough.
You're worthy of respect
Whoever you are and whatever you do, remember that you deserve all the respect
in the world. Start by being respectful to yourself.
It’s okay to rest
In the end of it all, we are just humans and we grow weary of the many things
that go around us. The bills, the mortgage, and keeping your family together –
these all take its toll on us. Allow yourself time to rest and recuperate
because, well, you deserve it.
Prayer is powerful
Don’t forget your faith and spirituality. Pray and lift your worries to God.
It doesn’t have to be the usual prayer that we memorize and repeatedly recite.
I think personal prayers and “conversations with God” are even more powerful
and effective.
Epilogue
These are just a few of the positive affirmations for dads that I can think
of. Honestly, I still don’t feel 100% fine but I get by. I’m still irritable
on many occasions but I do try to manage it. I try to see the good in things
even if it’s hard. I’m also beginning to pray a lot again and I can feel that
it’s helping me get through.
How about you, what positive affirmations for tired dads can you give or
suggest? You’re welcome to put them in the comment section below.
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Thank you for this positive affirmations for dad po. Must read to sa mga father lalo na sa mga pinaghihinaan na ng loob para maging positive mind naman sila and lumakad ang loob.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this positive affirmations for dad po. Must read to sa mga father lalo na sa mga pinaghihinaan na ng loob para maging positive mind naman sila and lumakas ang loob.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing this po , must read tlga lalo na sa mga tatay . Tama ung nrrmdaman natin nararamdaman dn nila,pero sila kayang kaya nila dalin . Stress sila pero nalalabanan nila . Kaya dapat alam ntin nrrmdaman ng mga tatay ❤️
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